If you see me out and about, I won’t be wearing a ribbon, red, pink, white, or yellow. Online, I won’t be adding anything to nor changing the colours of my avatars. I don’t make a point of buying specific charity-branded coffee. My kitchen, wardrobe and satchel contain no charity-branded products. And I’ve had a hard time wrapping words around why I don’t do these things, why they’ve generally given rise to a sense of wrongness in my mind that I just can’t shake, no matter how worthy I believe the cause might be.
I have issues with the concept of charity; I wonder (especially with large, international charities) where the money goes, how much gets socked away into ‘administrative costs’, how much good is actually done, and whether or not charitable aid actually ends up creating dependents instead of assisting people and nations to stand on their own feet. And having worked for various charities and non-profits, both in paid and volunteer positions, I have questions about how ethically some of them are run - how they treat their employees, how they set goals and measure results, how responsible and smart and efficient they are. I see a lot of burnout, and a lot of brilliant people martyring themselves to no discernible positive effect in the community, a lot of waste. Or wearing themselves thin until they’re no longer able to work in that field, with a huge net loss of intelligence, connections and human power.
But more troubling for me is this trend towards passive charity; the buying of something to demonstrate your beliefs, in substitution for actually acting on them.
Recently, Merlin Mann linked to a book called ‘Conspicuous Compassion,’ about the phenomenon of publicly displaying our charity (you can get a .pdf of the first chapter here; I recommend that you read it). Though it goes to some places I disagree with, overall it was with relief that I saw this discomfort expressed by someone else. Read the rest of this entry »


rain in the morning, and I think we had half our usual attendance (I also didn’t realize, I think, how many people come from out of town to PFF) due to the forecast sounding dire and miserable. But it turned out to be a beautiful day, with people saying ‘best PFF ever.’ And the workshops at 
